In this episode, Alisa Grace is joined by guest co-host Tatum Munivez to explore how every marriage brings two cultures together, even when spouses come from similar backgrounds. They discuss how family traditions, faith practices, emotional expression, and approaches to conflict shape our expectations of marriage. Through personal stories and practical examples, they share how to replace criticism with curiosity, distinguish cultural preferences from biblical convictions, and honor extended family while creating a culture of your own. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this episode offers tools to navigate differences with empathy, communicate your needs, and build meaningful traditions together.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/EhQ93pf34xo

Resources Mentioned:

  • John Gottman’s Four Horsemen – Learn about criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, the harmful communication patterns discussed in this episode. Read more.
  • Scripture References – Genesis 2:24 on leaving and cleaving, Psalm 139 on God’s intimate knowledge of us, and Philippians 2:3–4 on considering others’ needs.
  • Center for Marriage and Relationships – Explore resources to help strengthen your marriage and relationships. Visit cmr.biola.edu.

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About the Hosts:

Chris Grace, Ph.D., and Alisa Grace are passionate about helping people build and sustain healthy relationships. As leaders of the Biola University Center for Marriage and Relationships, they combine the wisdom of Scripture with scholarly research to offer practical advice and insights. Learn more about their work at cmr.biola.edu.

Guest Co-Host: In this episode, Tatum Munivez, CMR’s Communications and Marketing Manager, joins Alisa and shares personal insights from her own marriage.

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