Too Much, Not Enough: Two Sides of the Same Wound

If you’ve ever felt like being fully yourself would make you harder to love, this episode is for you. Vanessa Bennett explores how the too much wound and the not enough wound are often the same core fear: that authentic selfhood threatens belonging. We talk about the way self-editing becomes a survival strategy—somatically, relationally, culturally—and how “being good” can masquerade as maturity while actually costing you your aliveness. The work isn’t “just be yourself”—it’s staying connected to yourself even when your full humanity makes other people uncomfortable.

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