If you've ever wondered why meeting someone feels harder than it used to, this episode is for you.
Many successful women assume they're struggling in dating because they haven't found the right strategy, aren't on enough apps, or haven't done enough inner work.
But what if the issue isn't dating at all?
This isn't about trying harder, becoming more outgoing, or turning every trip to the grocery store into a dating strategy.
Instead, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on what it really takes to get noticed and asked out by great men in real life.
PODCAST TIMESTAMPS:
3:00 - What women actually assume is keeping them from getting approached.
4:30 - What women who get asked out are doing that has nothing to do with dating.
8:30 - The external story that's quietly giving your power away.
16:00 - Where you're accidentally closing the door before he even has a chance.
22:00 - Stop working on your dating skills and do this instead.
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