How to Know If You've Outgrown Your Marriage After|374

What happens when the life or relationship you chose years ago no longer feels like yours? In this Off Duty Life episode, I'm joined by self-trust and relationship coach Mikahla Kate to talk about the messy middle between "something isn't right" and making a life-changing decision. This isn't a conversation about telling women to stay or go. It's about slowing down long enough to understand what you actually want, what you've been tolerating, and whether you're following a blueprint you didn't consciously choose. We talk about: · The difference between a rough season and a relationship you've outgrown · Why making the decision isn't the same as doing the deeper work · How childhood patterns can shape the partners we choose · What happens when only one person is willing to reflect and change · Why you can't schedule healing between 1:00 and 3:30 and call it handled · The danger of choosing the same relationship in a different outfit · How small acts of self-trust help you hear your own voice again · Why rediscovering yourself doesn't require blowing up your life or booking a retreat in Bali · The question we eventually have to ask: Am I tolerating my life or actually living it? Sometimes the first step isn't making a decision. It's getting quiet enough to hear what you already know. Connect with Mikahla:Instagram: @thrivewithmick TikTok: @thrivewithmick Connect with Kim: Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/fitgirlmagic Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@kimbarnesjefferson Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kimjeffersoncoach/ Off Duty Club https://theoffdutylife.com/odc_sept If your life was a house, what room needs your attention? https://kimbarnesjefferson.lpages.co/room-quiz_podcast free quiz