"Failure is measured in ounces, regret is measured in tons."
Nate Burkhalter—seven-time competitor on American Ninja Warrior—joins Ned Schaut for a raw, grounded conversation about identity, risk, and what it actually means to lead as a husband and father.
Nate’s story isn’t polished—it’s forged. From a career in oil and gas engineering to chasing a his calling through failure, rejection, injury, and breakthrough, he unpacks a revelation he heard from God, a hard truth most men avoid:
playing it safe is the riskiest way to live.
But now, as a new father of twins, the game has changed. The arena isn’t just competition—it’s the home.
This episode hits the tension every driven man feels:
Build something meaningful… without sacrificing your family
Take risks… without being reckless
Lead spiritually… without hiding behind religion
Nate brings clarity: your primary ministry isn’t your platform—it’s your family. And if you get that wrong, nothing else matters.
Why fathers should listen:
You’re ambitious but don’t want to wake up at 55 with regret
You feel the pull between grind and presence
You want to raise kids who actually know God—not just perform religion
You’ve failed, and you’re wondering if you should keep going
Key takeaways:
Identity shift → risk tolerance → real impact
Failure isn’t the enemy—regret is
Discipline creates freedom in both work and family life
Stewardship beats control in fatherhood
The first 8–12 years with your kids are foundational—don’t outsource them
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