What happens when a long-term gay couple is no longer fully monogamous—but neither partner feels entirely comfortable calling the relationship open?

Ken Howard, LCSW, CST explores the emotional territory between monogamy and consensual non-monogamy: relationships that change gradually, sexual agreements that make sense intellectually but remain difficult emotionally, and the difference between genuine acceptance and reluctant permission.

This episode examines erotic grief, aging, changing desire, hookup-app use, fear of losing a shared life, and the difficult conversations couples sometimes avoid. Rather than arguing that one relationship structure is superior, Ken encourages gay male couples to build relationships deliberately—with honesty, mutual awareness, emotional respect, and agreements that can evolve as their lives change.

To learn more about therapy for gay men and gay male couples in California, or coaching services available worldwide, visit GayTherapyLA.com.

Rss Apple Podcaster
Podden och tillhörande omslagsbild på den här sidan tillhör Ken Howard, LCSW, CST. Innehållet i podden är skapat av Ken Howard, LCSW, CST och inte av, eller tillsammans med, Poddtoppen.