"Health is the unbecoming. So much of the work around health is unbecoming the beliefs that were never yours." — Courtney Townley
What if getting healthy wasn't about doing more but about finally putting some things down?
In this episode, Courtney Townley, health and self-leadership coach, author of The Consistency Code, and host of the Grace & Grit podcast, drops some midlife truth bombs we absolutely need to hear. We cut through the noise of wellness culture, talk about what consistency actually means at this stage of our lives (hint: it's not doing the same thing over and over until you die). And we dive into why outsourcing to the "experts" might be the thing holding you back.
If you're looking for an episode to guilt or shame you around diet and exercise, you've come to the wrong place.
In This Episode
- Why the first thing women need from their health is relief, not results
- How to stop outsourcing your life choices
- What changes when you finally do it for yourself
- Pre-deciding: why planning doesn't require charts, graphs, or a color-coded notebook
- Grace vs. excuses: two questions that help you tell the difference
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About Courtney Townley:
Courtney Townley is a health and self-leadership coach, speaker, and host of the top-rated Grace & Grit podcast and the author of The Consistency Code. She helps midlife women cut through the noise of wellness culture and lead themselves with less overwhelm and more confidence. With over 30 years in the wellness industry, Courtney blends neuroscience, behavior change, and straight talk to show women that deep health isn’t about following someone else’s plan... it’s about learning to trust and lead yourself. A sought-after speaker and educator, she is known for her grounded, no-nonsense approach to sustainable change. When she’s not coaching or podcasting, you’ll find her salsa dancing, traveling, or soaking up time with her family and her Great Dane, Sully.
Resources & Links
- The Consistency Code by Courtney Townley
- Grace & Grit Podcast
- Courtney on Instagram
- The Grown-Ass Woman's Health Cheat Sheet
- The Grown-Ass Woman's Guide on Instagram
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