177 Why won't they commit to me? If you get dates but no relationship

Do your connections keep fizzling out somewhere between a few dates and a few months?

In this episode, we explore why getting to commitment isn't always about meeting more people or playing the dating game better. Sometimes the very strategies we use to seem desirable—playing it cool, overgiving, hiding what we really want—keep us from creating the relationship we're actually longing for.

I share a client story and the shifts that helped her move from dating spin cycle to a passionate, co-created partnership.

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