What happens when you realize the life you thought you wanted no longer fits?
In this thought-provoking and deeply personal episode of ON THE KNOWS with Randall Kenneth Jones, award-winning author, keynote speaker, marketing expert and thought leader Tony Rubleski joins Randall for a wide-ranging conversation about his latest book, DON’T QUIT, DO IT, and the lessons it offers about personal growth, mindset, resilience, reinvention, creativity, marketing, sales, and navigating life’s unexpected transitions.
At the heart of the conversation is Tony’s concept of “mind capture”—the ability to stand out and earn attention in a world overwhelmed by information, social media, digital distractions and competing demands. Tony explains why attention has become one of our most valuable commodities and why focus may be more important—and more endangered—than ever.
But this conversation quickly goes far beyond marketing.
Tony and Randy explore the power of self-talk and the importance of making the voice inside your head an ally rather than an enemy. Tony discusses how setbacks, habits and daily choices shape our lives—and why structure can actually create freedom rather than restrict it.
The conversation also becomes remarkably candid when Tony talks about his recovery from compulsive gambling and his experience with Gamblers Anonymous. He explains how learning to live “one day at a time” changed his relationship with risk and ultimately led him to embrace a different kind of risk-taking: betting on himself, his talents, his skills and his gifts.
For entrepreneurs, business leaders, creatives and anyone who has ever said, “I don't want to be in sales,” Tony offers another powerful perspective: everyone is selling. Whether you're promoting a business, pitching an idea, interviewing for a job, building a relationship or simply communicating your value, persuasion is part of everyday life.
Tony also identifies what he considers one of the biggest mistakes in modern marketing: being boring. In an age when audiences may give you only seconds of their attention, he argues that creativity, humor, surprise and authenticity can be powerful tools for earning “mind capture.”
And then the conversation takes an unexpectedly personal turn.
Randy opens up about being 64 and realizing that the hunger that once drove him may have changed. Rather than treating that realization as failure, Tony reframes it as part of aging, wisdom and discernment. The goal isn't necessarily to “grind” harder, but to find greater harmony—to become more selective about the people, projects, audiences and causes that deserve your time.
Tony and Randy also discuss the importance of simplicity, slowing down, self-care and “plugging your soul in” in an increasingly noisy digital world. Tony shares simple ways to reconnect with what matters, from taking a walk and practicing gratitude to calling family, writing a thank-you note and deliberately creating moments away from technology.
Perhaps most importantly, Tony talks about living the very lessons he writes about. Following the launch of his book, his own life underwent a major transition, including the end of a relationship and a move back to Michigan. Rather than pretending to have everything figured out, Tony explains why sometimes letting go of the future you imagined is necessary to make room for the life that actually comes next.
This is ultimately a conversation about reinvention, resilience, purpose and staying open to what life still has to teach us.
In this episode, Randall Kenneth Jones and Tony Rubleski discuss:
• What “mind capture” means and why earning attention is increasingly difficult
• The modern attention economy and the impact of social media and digital distraction
• Why focus may be one of our most valuable—and threatened—resources
• The power of positive self-talk and making your inner voice an ally
• Why freedom without structure can become chaos
• Tony’s journey through compulsive gambling recovery and Gamblers Anonymous
• What it really means to “bet on yourself”
• Why everyone is involved in sales, whether they realize it or not
• Marketing, personal branding and the danger of being boring
• How humor and creativity can capture attention
• Why adults laugh far less than children—and why that matters
• Finding motivation and purpose later in life
• Reinvention, aging and changing definitions of success
• Why simplicity can become more important as we get older
• Learning to let go of a life that no longer serves you
• Managing information overload in the age of AI
• How to “plug your soul in” every day
• The importance of relationships, gratitude and human connection
• Why it's okay not to know everything
• Learning from setbacks rather than pretending they don't happen
• The value of remaining a student of life
Tony's final answer to Randy’s signature question—“What do you know?”—may be the perfect summary of the entire conversation: what we think we know needs to remain open, because it can change on any given day when we least expect it.
Watch, listen, think—and then decide what you're ready to change.
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Tony Rubleski: www.MindCaptureGroup.com
Randall Kenneth Jones: www.RandallKennethJones.com
Susan Bennett: www.SusanCBennett.com
Kevin Randall Jones: www.KevinRandallJones.com
