Have you ever wondered: "Am I the only one who wants this?" This episode we explore that question. When you crave things that don’t fit in the tidy boxes men are taught their sexuality should come in, what do you do? Ask us! And, you did. This episode will help you realize you are far from alone.

Episode Outline:

  • The question behind the question: Why "am I the only one?" is really about being seen, understood, and accepted
  • Power and Surrender:
    • "I want to be at her feet while she works — is that too passive?" 
    • Rules and protocols in BDSM play
    • "I want her mean, then sweet, then mean again" — emotional whiplash as a doorway to subspace, and the fantasy of being broken and remade
  • Am I alone in fantasizing about…
    • Serving a couple as the third who's used and dismissed
    • Submitting to an authority figure — boss, teacher, therapist
  • Do other people like…
    • Being tricked or manipulated into submission
    • Small penis teasing and humiliation
    • Getting caught or exposed
    • Wearing women's clothing without identifying as a sissy
    • Craving anal play but worrying what it "means"

The underlying pattern: "If people knew this about me, they'd be disgusted" — and the relief of hearing a Mistress say, "I know, and I like it too"

Do you have questions about BDSM, kink or just want to talk to an experienced Mistress? Get in touch!

DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia 

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Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com
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Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com
Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

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