Are you the villain—or are you so committed to being seen as good that you haven’t questioned how you show up?Sometimes we withhold the truth, avoid setting boundaries, and call it kindness. We say “I understand” while quietly building resentment. We keep the peace until maintaining it becomes somebody else’s responsibility.What happens to a relationship when looking like a good person becomes more important than practicing honesty, accountability, and care?In this episode, we’re talking about people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and the harm we can cause while trying to keep our “good person” identity intact.Ask yourself: Where am I choosing to be perceived as good at the expense of being truthful?👇 What has trying to be “the understanding one” cost you? Share what you’re comfortable sharing in the comments.I’m also developing an eight-week cohort around self-abandonment—how we lose ourselves in our relationships, and how we practice showing up without leaving ourselves behind. More on that soon.It’s just information.
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