In this episode, we’re throwing out the tired, generic style advice that’s been making women feel like they’re getting it “wrong” for years. You don’t need another list of “must-haves”, body shape diagrams, or colour rules – you need to start asking one powerful question:

“Is this me?”

Not:

  • Does this flatter my figure?

  • Is this the right colour for my undertone?

  • Is this on trend for my age?

Those questions are rooted in shame, judgment and external rules. This conversation is about coming back to you.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • Why generic style rules are failing you (and why they feel so flat and boring)

  • The problem with shame-based advice like “does this flatter me?”

  • Replacing “Is this flattering?” with “Is this me?” as your core style filter

  • How your current wardrobe is already full of clues about your true style

  • What your home, decor and environment reveal about what you’re genuinely drawn to

  • How your upbringing, music, culture and memories quietly shape your taste

  • Why we’ve never been taught to trust our instincts with style – and how to change that

  • A simple process to start decoding your personal style from what you already own

You’ll learn:

  • How to spot the pieces you actually love versus the ones you “should” wear

  • How to use your wardrobe, your home and even your Pinterest saves as a style mood board

  • How to stop feeling like you’re “failing” at style and start feeling at home in your clothes

  • Practical questions to ask yourself when you try something on so you know instantly if it’s you

Try this after you listen:

  • Go to your wardrobe and pull out the 5 things you wear on repeat

  • Ask: What do these have in common? Shape, colour, fabric, mood?

  • Then walk around your home and notice the same patterns in your decor

  • Start building your outfits from those clues – not from someone else’s rulebook

If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your style to strangers on the internet and start trusting your own instincts, this episode is for you.

 

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