Talking about sex can be one of the best things you do for your sex life, especially when you stop waiting until the topic is loaded. Today, I'm focusing on curiosity over fixing so both of you feel safe enough to tell the truth about what you want. 

• choosing the right time to talk so it does not feel like pressure
• making the shift from solving to learning
• using empathy, vulnerability, and accountability to reduce defensiveness
• spotting questions that are really complaints and rewriting them with real curiosity
• asking for what you want more of and giving your partner a roadmap
• normalising “I don’t know” and treating desire as something you discover
• trying a yes no maybe list while remembering curiosity is not consent
• using one weekly question to keep sex an ongoing conversation

You can still get all 15 resources inside the Intimacy Vault for $15 off until September 28th, so hurry and check out:  The Intimacy Vault HERE

If this conversation encouraged you, would you do me a favor and share it with someone you love? Your spouse, a friend, or another couple who could use a little hope today. 


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