Why do so many conversations leave us feeling unheard and disconnected? 

In her beautiful book Deep Listening, 

acclaimed BBC journalist, accredited executive coach, and mediator Emily Kasriel argues that it’s because we've forgotten how to truly listen.

Distracted by our own agenda, we so often hear without understanding, impatiently waiting for our turn to speak. 

In today’s conversation we’ll explore the life-changing practice of deep listening, 

How it can enrich our relationships as friends, parents, and partners, 

enhance our effectiveness as leaders, 

and strengthen the fabric of our communities. 

At a time when divisions within communities, organizations, and families are often a source of profound pain, 

Emily’s work offers inspiration and practical guidance on how we can better listen to each other, even when we fiercely disagree.

The evidence-based approach Emily developed for Deep Listening was born out of her experiences:

  • As a Senior Visiting Research Fellow at King's College Policy Institute in London 
  • As a past Practitioner in Residence at the London School of Economics. 
  • And leading the BBC’s British Council Crossing Divides around the Globe project, where they signed up more than 1000 young people from 119 countries for her training in Deep Listening.

The insights Emily will share throughout our conversation span: 

  • scientific studies, 
  • experiences with indigenous elders, 
  • and powerful personal stories from time spent with legendary listeners in politics, business, and the arts. 

All of which point toward the healing medicine we may be in need of most right now-

The ancient practice of listening in ways that foster:

More profound encounters, deeper connection, 

and the possibility of truly understanding each other.  

For more on Emily, her book, TED talk, resources, and other offerings please visit emilykasriel.com

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