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✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0
This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating.
We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.
Episode Summary
In this episode of Redefining Love 2.0, Patrice Washington sits down with Christine Hassler, bestselling author, spiritual psychologist, and life coach, to challenge the dating advice that makes successful women feel like they need to change who they are to find love. Together, they unpack myths about being “too masculine,” “too independent,” or “too successful,” while exploring how past heartbreak, suppressed emotions, and fear can shape our relationships. Christine shares why becoming a love magnet is about trusting your discernment, healing old patterns, and opening yourself to healthy, aligned love.
Through honest reflections on divorce, dating, and finding love again, Patrice and Christine explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, surrendering and settling, and potential versus reality. They remind us that you can desire love without chasing it, honor your standards without closing your heart, and welcome a healthy relationship without abandoning yourself.
Questions to Ask Yourself:
Have I internalized dating advice that makes me feel like I need to change who I am to be loved?
Where might past heartbreak or suppressed emotions be influencing how I approach relationships today?
Am I trusting my discernment, or allowing fear of making the wrong choice to control my decisions?
What expectations am I holding onto that may be rooted in fear rather than genuine alignment?
What would it look like to pursue love with high intention, low attachment, and radical self-acceptance?
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Resources Mentioned:
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📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars
📝 Join Christine Hassler's FREE 3-Day Love Magnet Workshop: www.patricewashington.com/lovemagnet
💬 BS Dating Advice that Would've Kept me Single... OR Settling for the Wrong Partner: https://www.instagram.com/p/DeC2Nw0ElIV/?img_index=1
Follow Christine Hassler on Social Media:
Instagram: @christinehassler
Facebook: @christinehasslerpage
Website: www.christinehassler.com