Five months.
That’s how long it took my entire life to fall apart.
I became unexpectedly pregnant with twins—already a mom of two and married for twelve years.
When I told my husband, he gave me an ultimatum: him… or the babies. I couldn’t have both.
I chose the babies.
I didn’t like him very much anyway.
Within weeks, I was on hospitalized bedrest, managing two kids at home with a husband who had already checked out in every way.
I was suddenly single in every way that mattered.
A few fun facts: My oldest daughter was born after 36 hours of labor, minutes from a c-section. The midwife literally pulled her out. My water broke on the 9th hole -- I was playing golf!
My son was born accidentally at home! Yup...I'm one of those women you read about!
I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was 11. Currently, (as a true entrepreneur) I'm building:
* Sexual Health Disruptor: Boom Boom Butter -- the world's 1st sexual lube with health benefits (https://boomboombutter.com/)
* Health Disruptor: Revolutionary at-home blood spot testing for balance, diabetes, heart disease and many more! (www.magpuretesting.com)
* Growth strategist and corporate trainer (on all things innovation, leadership, soft skills, strategy & entrepreneurship) (www.tamigaines.com)
* Author, Preemie Parents, 26 Ways to Grow with Your Premature Baby (several additional books and courses to come in 2026)
* Course creator
FIND HER HERE:
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