In a first-ever Woman of Influence Table Talk, I gather five powerhouse women in one room for a no-holds-barred conversation about what it really takes to build, hold, and protect true influence. I'm joined by Amy Porterfield, Stacy Tuschl, Leanne Lopez Mosley, Adley Kinsman, and Ashley Brock five women who have collectively built multi-million dollar businesses, generated billions of views, scaled iconic brands, and earned their elevation by doing the work most women aren't willing to do. We open the conversation with the question every woman in business needs to sit with: when did you first realize you had cultivated real influence, and what did it cost you?
This is a raw and grounding conversation about being misunderstood, raising your standard when it's the most inconvenient, the people-pleasing patterns that quietly cap your influence, and why you cannot have any form of real influence and still chase universal approval. We talk about Amy's decision to retire a $60 million program and the public backlash that followed, Stacy's framework of "$100 million CEO" thinking, Adley's concept of Cringe Mountain, Leanne's evolution into Rich Queen and Soft Girl Millions, and Ashley's identity-shifting realization that she was a thought repeater, not a thought leader. If you've ever felt the tension between being liked and being free, this episode is your invitation to choose the latter and stay tuned for Part 2.
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KEY POINTS:
00:00 Show Opening
00:49 Table Talk Setup
01:54 Adley on Thick Skin
03:10 In Person Influence
05:04 Courage to Be Disliked
07:03 The Weight of Influence
09:28 Amy’s Big Pivot
12:27 Stop Blaming Tactics
14:36 Earning Your Elevation
16:47 Standards and Boundaries
23:35 Stacy on Team Standards
27:02 Ashley on Hard Boundaries
28:41 Marriage and Leveling Up
31:25 Capacity and Red Flags
36:16 Highest Self Decisions
37:37 Embodied Belief Alignment
39:40 Cringe Mountain Content
41:39 Data Over Opinions
42:54 Trust Your Gut
45:04 Everyone Influences
49:48 Stop Seeking Advice
55:10 Thought Leader Not Repeater
57:38 Authenticity Amplifies
01:00:42 Chickens And Breakthrough
01:02:20 Create Not Consume
01:03:13 Wrap Up And CTA
QUOTABLES:
"I learned that you cannot be a people pleaser and have any form of real influence." - Adley Kinsman
"I cannot be judged by somebody else if I'm not judging myself. I cannot be misunderstood by somebody else if I am not misunderstanding who I am." - Leanne Lopez Mosley
"I believe in this idea of earning your elevation, meaning doing the reps, staying in your lane, changing lives, being responsible for what you're doing. And at a certain point, you grow and you change, and you earn your elevation to do something different." - Amy Porterfield
"When I'm in a bind or it's not convenient, I go, 'What would $100 million Stacey do?'" - Stacy Tuschl
"I realized I was a thought repeater, not a thought leader." - Ashley Brock
"Influence is very holy. This is where I get godly. It comes from the stars. It is a spiritual evolution and process of trusting that inner knowing and that inner guidance." - Julie Solomon
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