437 Step 5 with Sonia Khalon: Resentment, Boundaries, and the Fear of Asking for What You Need - The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast | Lyssna här

My name is Arlina, I'm a best-selling author of the 12 step guide for skeptics, I've been sober for 32 years myself, and I'll be your host.

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Today I sit down with Sonia Kahlon, co-founder of Sisters in Sobriety to tackle Step 5. Sonia has been moving through the steps with remarkable consistency, and this conversation gets real about resentments, boundaries, fear of asking for what we need, and the surprising ways sobriety makes us more sensitive, not less.

This episode is packed with practical wisdom, including:

• Why resentment is called the #1 cause of relapse - and what to do about it

• How to set a boundary without going from doormat to dictator

• The difference between your thoughts and your actions (and why it matters for Step 6)

• How sobriety can actually make you slower to react - and why that's okay

• What the Karpman Drama Triangle is and how it shows up in your relationships

• Why if you spot it you got it is a tool for compassion, not self-punishment

• How to use canned responses to navigate emotionally charged conversations

So without further delay, please enjoy this episode with Sonia!

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Guest Website: https://sistersinsobriety.substack.com/

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