You might be trying to become a woman who isn't actually you.
Not because wanting to grow, change, or become a new version of yourself is wrong.
But somewhere along the way, "becoming her" can turn into chasing a fantasy woman who never gets overwhelmed, never loses momentum, always follows through, has the perfect routine, and apparently has no inconvenient emotions or actual life.
And every time real-life you doesn't behave like fantasy-you would, it feels like evidence that you're failing.
In this episode, Allie breaks down the difference between chasing an idealized version of yourself and actually discovering and becoming the woman you're here to be.
You'll hear:
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•How your future self can quietly become another impossible standard
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• The difference between your fantasy self, your current self, and your true self
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How to tell the difference between something you genuinely desire and something you think you "should" want
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Why you might be trying to rewire yourself into a life that isn't actually aligned with you
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What happens when you separate who you are from what you accomplish, produce, and do for other people
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Why becoming her was never supposed to mean becoming perfect
You're allowed to want more.
You're allowed to grow, expand, reinvent yourself, make more money, change your body, and create a completely different life.
But the question is:
Is the woman you're trying so hard to become actually you?
Ready to stop starting over?
Join Allie's free live class:
Stop Starting Over: The Real Reason You Can't Stay Consistent (and How to Finally Change It)
👉 https://alliecasazza.com/stopstartingover
