You audit everything else that matters — your numbers, your team, your health. So why is your love life the one place you keep blaming the apps, the city, and "no good men"? In this episode, Amanda runs a live love audit with her client Kate: a four-part walkthrough of the patterns, filters, and quiet standard-slips that keep smart women stuck in talking stages that go nowhere. By the end, you'll have a standards reset and a seven-day plan to run the play yourself.
Key Takeaways
Why the problem isn't the apps, your city, or a shortage of good men — it's the strategy you've been dating without
The CEO shift: slow to hire, fast to fire, never rehire — and how to apply it to your love life
How to require clarity early instead of chasing it for months
The three places you're over-giving, and how to match a man's effort instead of out-running it
A standards reset you can write down today, plus a seven-day action plan
Chapters
00:00 — What a love audit is (and why you stop blaming everything else)
02:25 — Audit 1: Your patterns — the last three men and how they made you feel
09:30 — The red flag women normalize, and why you fire fast
11:00 — Audit 2: Your filters and the CEO shift
17:00 — "I'm looking for a relationship, not a pen pal" — slow to hire, fast to fire
24:56 — Audit 3: Energy and behavior — over-giving, chasing clarity, abandoning standards
37:00 — There's no shortage of good men. You're ignoring the ones who show up.
38:30 — Audit 4: Your standards reset
41:30 — Your seven-day action plan
44:00 — Listener Q&A: attraction, leading someone on, and calling it sooner
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