Are You Worried You’re Too Vanilla In Sex?

Have you ever felt pressure to have a certain kind of sex? 

Sex positivity has been an incredible movement which has normalised and destigmatised adventurous, kinky and casual sex. But has that come at a cost? In this ep, we’re joined by guest co-host psychologist and sexologist Laura Lee to unpack whether sex positivity and hook up culture has created a new type of pressure and expectation to perform.

SHOW NOTES:

A women’s right to say ‘meh’ - https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/oct/10/sex-positivity-sexuality-ambivalence-feminism

How sex positivity lost its way: https://katemanne.substack.com/p/how-sex-positivity-lost-its-way

How Sexual information (CONT) : https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9825060/

5 ways to have better sex in a relationship - https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/experimentations/201710/5-ways-have-better-sex-in-relationship

Couples’ sexual communication and dimensions of sexual function: A meta-analysis

\https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6699928/

Fetish 101: Vanilla - https://www.hudapp.com/blog/fetish-101-vanilla

How the sexual revolution changed the world https://youtu.be/VdDERcyouWs?si=9icswXNioUtwZ3g0

The canadian journal of human sexuality https://utppublishing.com/doi/full/10.3138/cjhs.2017-0017