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(02:01) Biblical foundations: Ephesians 5/Colossians 3 ideal, 1 Peter 3, Matthew 10's "sword"
(04:46) 1 Corinthians 7 and the evangelistic hope of winning a spouse
(05:37) Caveat: 1 Peter 3 must never justify staying in an abusive marriage
(07:04) First step: identify whether the spouse is supportive, indifferent, or hostile
(09:44) Handling hostile spouses: non-negotiables vs. "not poking the bear"
(11:24) Prioritizing commitments and working around church scheduling
(13:45) Creative service when giving is restricted (meals instead of tithing)
(14:53) Pastor initiating contact with the husband; Jim's own teenage conversion story
(17:16) Disarming through shared interests, hired work, and low-pressure men's gatherings
(20:25) Guidance for believing husbands: godliness and sacrificial love, not demanding authority
(23:02) The pastor's real goal: help the believer live faithfully, not "win" the spouse
(24:56) Closing word and p
