Ep. 321: When it’s Hard To Love Certain People

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(02:30) Setting up the topic and biblical foundation

(04:45) Biblical Ideal of Loving Everyone

(05:40) Sheep vs. Wolves – Setting Parameters

(08:45) Levels of Difficulty – From Mild Criticism to Dislike

(09:35) “Mud in the Face” – Handling Criticism

(11:45) Examples of Painful Feedback & Common Temptations

(14:50) Trust, Tenure, and Misreading People

(19:20) Deep Wounds & The Call to Keep Loving

(21:50) Fighting Bitterness with Scripture

(24:40) Lament as a Godward Outlet

(27:30) Identity in Christ vs. Identity in Ministry

(29:20) Bodily Stress & Practical Self‑Care

(31:05) Leaning In Instead of Pulling Away

(33:10) Story: Visiting a Harsh Critic in Grief:

(35:45) Final word & Prayer