Aleeza Ben Shalom, celebrity matchmaker of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, shares actionable advice to help you find your path on this dating journey with wisdom from her new book “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”. And the Dear Damona question this week is: What are the signs that someone is interested in you?
Pre-order your copy of Aleeza's new book, “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”, by visiting: https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/
And, follow Aleeza on Instagram @AleezaBenShalom!
Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona’s signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program
Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com
TIMESTAMPS
Intro (00:00:00)
Finding your personal dating playbook (00:01:03)
Meet Aleeza Ben Shalom (00:02:14)
Aleeza's journey as a matchmaker (00:02:50)
Date them till you hate them (00:04:02)
The three-date rule (00:05:30)
Clarity in dating decisions (00:06:37)
The importance of staying curious (00:07:25)
Navigating difficult conversations (00:10:30)
Rejection as a form of protection (00:13:20)
The five-day challenge (00:14:42)
Five Day Challenge Explained (00:15:04)
Clarifying the No Touching Rule (00:15:49)
Tips for the Challenge (00:16:36)
Importance of Connection in Dating (00:18:39)
Dating Dynamics and Tests (00:19:47)
Rules for Same-Sex Couples (00:20:33)
Calculating Relationship Compatibility (00:21:06)
Interests vs. Core Values (00:22:44)
Significance of Family Values (00:24:22)
Understanding Timelines in Relationships (00:26:53)
Self-Discovery in Dating (00:29:16)
The Five-Year Relationship Evolution (00:29:50)
The 555 Dating Rule Explained (00:30:23)
Building Momentum in Dating (00:31:04)
Chemistry and Intentional Dating (00:34:13)
Soulmate Clarity Concept (00:37:38)
Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:40:41)
Dating Gestures and Vibes (00:45:35)
Small Moves in Dating (00:46:29)
Attraction Beyond Age (00:47:22)
Investing in Clear Signals (00:48:52)
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