00:00:00 Introduction: Celebrating Queer Pleasure00:01:28 Breaking Stereotypes: Queer Women and Pleasure00:05:36 Challenging Internalized Misogyny in the Queer Community00:19:50 Embracing Pleasure-Centered Sex00:27:53 The Need for Authentic Representation in Porn00:33:46 Debunking the Myth of 'Lesbian Bed Death'00:37:27 The Lack of Open Conversations Among Women00:41:53 Consent and Abuse00:43:51 Pleasure as Medicine00:47:51 Being Your Own Lover00:50:35 The Harmful Effects of People-Pleasing00:52:11 Embracing Self-Love for Personal and Collective Growth00:54:03 Join Us for the Empowerment Retreat in Costa Rica

In this episode, Whitni and Coach Khanyi challenge the stereotypes and assumptions about queer women's sexuality. They discuss how queer women can be both soft and loving, as well as fierce and passionate in their sexual experiences. They explore the importance of owning and embracing all aspects of their pleasure, including the more dominant and submissive roles. They also address the internalized misogyny and homophobia that can limit queer women's sexual expression and attraction to other masculine-presenting individuals. Overall, they advocate for authenticity and self-acceptance in queer intimacy. The conversation explores the importance of self-acceptance and self-enjoyment in one's body and sexuality. It emphasizes the freedom that comes from not seeking acceptance or understanding from others, but rather finding comfort and pleasure within oneself. The discussion also touches on the significance of creating safe spaces in relationships and the need for mutual consent and understanding. The conversation challenges societal norms and stereotypes surrounding lesbian sex and highlights the importance of authentic representation in porn. It also addresses the concept of 'lesbian bed death' and critiques the limited and flawed studies that have perpetuated this myth. The conversation explores the societal expectations and stereotypes around sex and pleasure for women, particularly masculine women. It highlights the importance of women creating spaces to talk about sex and pleasure, as well as the need to challenge patriarchal norms. The conversation also emphasizes the healing power of pleasure and the importance of self-love and self-pleasure. The upcoming retreat in Costa Rica is mentioned as an opportunity to let go of people-pleasing and embrace radical self-acceptance.

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