Alexa Van danced in Portland stripclubs and wrote a novel one decade later - not as a memoir but as a way of processing alcoholism and unhealthy relationships. Why is it that the very thing that attracts so many people to ‘us’ is the thing they end up hating and wanting to change? Let’s talk stripclubs, dating, and art.
2:00 - never worked at Sassy’s
4:00 - why is it that these men want to change me?
9:00 - she is a raging alcoholic
12:00 - double standard of working
15:00 - a lap dance is not disrespectful
20:00 - what makes a good shift?
23:00 - negative impact of stigma
28:00 - use cheap makeup
33:00 - stripper warehouses of Vegas
36:00 - nice partners do exist
41:00 - on being a “minor” 18-20years old
47:00 - social media suppression
51:00 - ‘Seggs” is absurd
55:00 - owner favoritism
59:00 - sex tip!
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Your guest is www.alexavan.com
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