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Episode Summary: In this episode, Gemma Gladstone tackles a listener's question about break-up recovery and the elusive concept of closure.  Drawing from her extensive experience as a therapist over the last 25 years, she provides practical advice on healing after a painful breakup, what to do and what not to do as well as managing lingering feelings.

Key Points:

  1. Introduction to Listener's Question:
    • A listener, referred to as "Lisa," shares her experience of a difficult breakup with a partner who exhibited love-bombing behavior.
    • Lisa is conflicted about seeking closure by expressing her feelings to her ex versus moving on without further contact.
  2. Understanding Love Bombing:
    • Gemma explains the dynamics of love bombing and its association with narcissistic traits.
    • The importance of recognizing red flags early in relationships.
  3. Healing Tips Post-Breakup:
    • No Contact Rule: Avoid all forms of contact with the ex-partner, including social media, to facilitate healing.
    • Avoid Rumination: Recognize and interrupt patterns of overthinking and counterfactual thinking to prevent emotional stagnation.
    • Validate Your Emotions: Acknowledge and accept your feelings of grief and sadness as a natural part of the healing process.
  4. Mindfulness and Self-Compassion:
    • Techniques to become aware of and m

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