Financial domination or findom involves a submissive (usually a man) who gives money or control of their finances to a dominant partner (usually a woman). The sub is not expecting anything in return—it’s about submitting, giving up control, sometimes being humiliated, and being aroused by all of this. So why are people into findom, and why does it seem to be growing in popularity?
My guest today is Jessica van Meir, a PhD candidate at the Harvard Kennedy School who studies sex work. Jessica is co-founder of MintStars, a subscription platform for content creators, models, and their fans. She also co-authored a chapter in the new book Sex Work Today: Erotic Labor in the 21st Century that explores the rise of financial kinks.
Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include:
Who’s into findom and why?
How is findom similar to or different from sugar dating?
What’s the connection between findom, our growing economic crises, and capitalism?
How can findom serve as a way of coping with financial precarity?
How does findom both challenge and reinforce traditional gender power dynamics?
To learn more about Jessica, follow her on the socials at @jessicavanmeir.bsky.social
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