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In this episode, I’m sharing one of the most vulnerable parts of my journey: my recent breakup. As someone who lives openly online and runs The Queer Country Club, a lesbian dating platform, I feel it’s important to let you in on the sad moments too—not just the highlights.
Here’s what I’m diving into:
✨ Why lesbian breakups feel like losing your best friend and your life plan all at once.
🕰️ The timeline of the breakup and how I gave both of us space to process before sharing it publicly.
🛑 What led to the breakup and how I mastered choosing peace over chaos.
🌀 The shame tied to “failed relationships” when you’re a public figure—and why I’m more proud than ever of how I handled this.
🏡 How I’m rebuilding: turning my house into a home, focusing on my relationship with God, and creating a life I love for myself.
Breakups are messy, but they don’t have to mean drama or bitterness. This experience taught me the beauty of letting go when something no longer aligns with my spirit.
If you’ve ever felt the sting of heartbreak, this one’s for you. Whether you were the one who walked away or the one left behind, I hope this episode brings you hope, empowerment, and a little bit of peace.
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Let’s heal and grow together. 🤍
Chapters
00:00 - I am single again
02:30 - Why we broke up and my lessons
12:31 - Three reasons I didn’t tell you sooner
15:59 - The shame of breakups
18:55 - Closure and crying it out
25:34 - Last words to her
28:29 - What’s next for me and dating again
