Ever wonder if your relationship has (or if your relationships have) healed from the trauma you’ve experienced?
*Note that, while this video mainly talks about marital relationships, the concepts APPLY TO YOUR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS as well. If a well-meaning but uninformed friend, family member, counselor or church didn’t understand what you were going through, we'll share some signs to know it might be safe to trust the relationship again.*
While this video is not a definitive list, it covers 15 signs we noticed in our own marriage, as well as things our clients exhibit as trust is rebuilt.
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction & Disclaimer
0:40 (1) This thinking changes
2:07 (2) “I’m gonna do this no matter what!”
2:54 (3) Accepting he is an addict (and what Lori used to think)
4:20 (4) Allies
5:01 (5) When he appreciates…
5:46 (6) Triggers
7:21 (7) Treating you as an equal, not as…
8:28 (8) His engagement in the relationship (not abdication, but also not…)
9:45 When Jay elbowed his way into our spiritual life together
10:08 Solution: Guys do this to help her heal
10:32 (9) Taking your feedback
11:24 (10) An early sign the relationship is healing—and the ‘her pain’ word picture that makes Lori cry
13:56 (11) When bad conversations are rare because of this…
15:32 (12) Recovering after bad conversations
16:12 (13) Peace, here
16:37 (14) He burned your life down, but…
17:27 (15) The ultimate thing that can give you peace in your relationship
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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery
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