Is He Using His PAST TRAUMA as a STALLING TACTIC? (Signs / 3 Solutions) – 5.10S

If someone in your life says THEY CAN’T HELP HOW THEY ACT in relationship because of what happened to them in the past, we cover one way to tell, and offer a few solutions.

Note: while this video is in response to someone’s question about their husband [after a CSAT said ‘disclosure would be a waste of time,’] the concepts can be used in your other relationships as well.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:07 Question: Disclosure a WASTE OF TIME due to…? (“EMOTIONAL INVALID”)

0:55 I explain EMPATHY Daily / I carry the load

1:15 Answer on having to explain EMPATHY

1:42 Solution: If counselor says DISCLOSURE is a waste of time

2:05 Solution: HOW TO KNOW if his past trauma halts your healing

3:00 Jay used past trauma to deflect (EMOTIONAL HIJACKING)

3:24 The more he feels REAL FEELINGS…

3:54 Answer regarding If he does have childhood trauma

4:31 Solution & THE KEY SIGN for Lori

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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website

https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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