In this episode, we’re going to dive into something that I know will resonate with many of you, especially if you’re someone who’s always on the go, always juggling a million things at once: the idea of “Busyness as a Trauma Response.”
Now, I know what you’re thinking. We live in a world where being busy is often seen as a sign of productivity and success. How many times have you heard someone say, “Oh, I’m just so busy,” almost like it’s a badge of honor? It’s like we’re competing to see who can cram the most into their day, as if that somehow makes us more accomplished, more valuable.
But here’s the thing: What if this constant drive to stay busy isn’t really about getting things done or achieving our goals? What if, deep down, it’s a way to avoid confronting something much more uncomfortable? Something like unresolved trauma that we’ve been carrying around, sometimes for years, without even realizing it.
Think about it. When was the last time you sat still and did nothing? I mean, did nothing—no phone, no TV, no to-do list running through your mind. For many of us, the thought of being still, of not being busy, is almost terrifying. It’s like we’re afraid that if we stop moving, stop doing, all the emotions and memories we’ve been trying to keep at bay will come rushing in.
In this episode, we’re going to explore the psychology behind using busyness as a coping mechanism. We’ll talk about how past experiences, especially traumatic ones, can drive us to fill every moment of our lives with activity. Because let’s face it, when we’re constantly on the go, we don’t have time to sit with our thoughts, our feelings, or our memories. We don’t have time to process what’s going on inside.
And while staying busy might seem like a good short-term solution, there are hidden costs to this behavior. Costs that show up in our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Maybe it’s that persistent feeling of anxiety or that sense of being overwhelmed that you just can’t shake. Or maybe it’s that nagging voice in the back of your mind telling you that something isn’t quite right, even when everything on the surface seems fine.
But here’s the good news: We’re not just going to talk about the problem. I’m also going to share some practical strategies to help you recognize when busyness is becoming detrimental and offer tips on how to break free from this cycle. Because the truth is, you don’t have to live in a constant state of busyness. You don’t have to keep running from one thing to the next, hoping that if you just stay busy enough, you won’t have to face what’s going on.
Whether you’re a business leader, an entrepreneur, or someone who simply finds themselves constantly on the go, this episode is for you. We’re going to dig deep, get real, and hopefully, by the end of it, you’ll have some new insights into how you can start living a more balanced and fulfilling life.
So, grab a cup of tea, get comfortable, and let’s get into it. Trust me, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.
