Charles Duhigg: How to Instantly Connect—The Science of Supercommunication

Why do some conversations feel electric while others fall flat? In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Daniel Amen and Tana Amen sit down with Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author Charles Duhigg (The Power of Habit, Supercommunicators) to explore what really makes people connect. You’ll learn how brain scans reveal that during powerful conversations, people’s brains literally sync up. Duhigg breaks down the three types of conversations everyone has—and why knowing which one you’re in can instantly improve your communication. Discover the surprising myths we believe about connection, and why asking deep, meaningful questions is the real secret to becoming a “supercommunicator.”

00:00 Intro

01:24 Sponsor

01:47 Common Myths of Communication

03:38 The 3 Categories of Communication

08:04 Communication Skills 

10:22 Alignment

15:03 Mismatched Conversations

18:02 Listening/Looking for Understanding

21:11 The Goals of Each Type of Communication

25:13 Connection When You Don’t Agree

32:19 Close Relationships

35:29 Digital Communication

39:50 Artificial Intelligence

40:48 Where to Start?

46:28 Sponsor

47:36 Wrap Up

Super Communicators, by Charles Duhigg:

https://charlesduhigg.com/supercommunicators/