In episode 303 astrologers Leisa Schaim and Chris Brennan talk about some tips for getting the most out of an astrological consultation as a client, as well as some possible pitfalls to avoid.
The topic for this episode was based on a question sent in by a listener named Kayley-Rae (@_kr_craft on Instagram):
“I think people would love to hear how to be a good client in a natal chart consultation. How to prepare? What questions to ask? How to assist the astrologer. I feel like you’ve discussed how to perform consultations but I’m not sure if receiving a consultation has been covered.”
During the course of the episode we talk about how to chose an astrologer that is right for you, having appropriate expectations for the consultation, the importance of having a dialogue with the astrologer, and more.
This episode is available in both audio and video versions below.
Show Notes
Here are the show notes that summarize some of the main points in the episode:
This is a good topic both for clients and for astrologers alike.
Things to think about as a client
Things to think about as an astrologer in terms of how you present yourself.
Choosing an astrologer:
Know what you’re looking for, and choose an appropriate astrologer for you.
Different astrologers specialize in different things
Difference topic specialties (career, relationships, etc.)
Different astrological approaches (modern, Hellenistic, medieval)
Different branches (natal, horary, electional, etc.)
Different house systems
Different zodiacs
If you’re not sure, it is fine to ask questions before scheduling.
Signing up/scheduling
Different offerings – one consult can’t cover everything
State clearly if there are any topics you’d like to focus on.
Don’t say too little or too much about what you’d like to discuss
Astrologer will prepare best if they know what you want to discuss
Have appropriate expectations
It’s one conversation vs. your whole life experience
Different angles on/insights into chart
Some placements can be more or less relevant at different stages of life
Same placements can have multiple manifestations, esp over time
Preparation:
You can ask individual astrologer if any prep would be helpful
Sometimes looking back at past dates
Especially if you’re asking about particular thing, dates can be helpful
Expect to have a dialogue
Don’t talk too much
Don’t talk too little
Don’t try to test the astrologer.
Giving information is context for the chart
Will allow the astrologer to do their job better, not just cold reading.
Kind of like doctor’s appointment w/just labs and not explaining symptoms
Give feedback so they know if on right track or need to change gears
It’s not supposed to be a passive experience, unless pre-recorded
Keep an open mind, but be honest if something doesn’t fit
Let the astrologer use the approach they use
Don’t ask them to switch house systems, comment on things they don’t use, etc.
Sometimes you can learn more by being exposed to a new approach.
Can sometimes be better to lead with questions about life topics vs. placements
Sometimes preconceptions about supposed meanings get in the way
You just won’t get as much out of the consult otherwise
Expectations of what is and isn’t possible, how specific one can be
Don’t ask lots of follow-up questions via email afterwards
