In this week's episode we talk about Lying and Swearing and the reasons why children may exhibit these behaviours. We look at ways to respond to our children with awareness and compassion and explore our reactions to these behaviours.
[2.11] Cultural conditioning around Lying and Swearing
[5:18] The reasons for Lying or not telling the truth
[7.50] Tweens and Teens and their need for autonomy
[11.20] Checking our responses first around lying
[13.03] Setting a foundation when our kids are young
[19.00] How we respond sets up a dynamic around behaviour
[20.30] Our own stories around lying and how we were responded to
[23.22] How do you feel in response to swearing?
[26.00] The needs that are being met with swearing
[30.20] Games we can use when our child swears
[35.40] The power of words
This week’s invitation:
1. Would you like to play with swearing and see how it feels for you as an adult?
2. Would you like to tune into how you feel around lying, and your experiences as a child and as an adult with this?
Resources:
Lawrence Cohen - https://www.playfulparenting.com/
Aletha Solter - Attachment Play Book
As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast
You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au
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Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey.
x
Lael and Marion
